It can be a challenge when you start dating someone new. You want everything to be as close to perfect or with as little problems as possible. Your dating and everything is okay. You start noticing little behaviors and things that might cause problems in your relationship. Some things you try to turn a blind eye to but two of them are hard to ignore. The two I am referring to is when someone guards a cell phone, staring at it all the time and acting secretive with it. The other thing is when someone tries to get to know someone and that partner seems to be playing mind games with that person. These mind games sort of go hand in hand with someone always whipping their cell phone out at various times of the day. Here are some more examples of what I am talking about. When two people are dating and trying to figure out their compatibility, one individual keeps staring at the cell phone. The person's staring is like the individual is mesmerized by it.(Some might be:/). If someone is trying to get to know someone, and the other pays more attention to the cell phone, the person making an attempt will feel like he or she is boring.
A cell phone watcher displays poor listening skills at times during a conversation with someone. A person will think a cellphone watcher is married with kids or a player because the cell phone is guarded with the owners life. A cellphone watcher can be perceived as someone who is uncommitted to a future relationship. Someone might think a cell phone watcher loves the phone more than him or her. Not everyone wants a cyber bf/gf. Most I feel still want human affection and love. Even though this isn't really a bad thing, cell phones give people less power to call the shots when people are dating. A person does not want to talk or hang out the individual will either let it ring, turn it on airplane mode or simply turn it off. If someone is not are that serious about being in a relationship but the person that he or she is dating has a jealous streak, she could go through your phone and use your previous personal business against you. Its not that person's right to do that but some people do attempt to do it though. If someone is on a trip and forgets the battery charger that person could get accused of cheating going the whole weekend without calling. It is up to the partner to decide to charge the cell phone in the car. Who knows if there is even a cell phone car charger in the car or not. This could lead to one of the individuals thinking that he or she is not being taken serious. If you are in a similar situation of feeling like your not being taken serious because its still a fairly new relationship, stay tuned for my next blog:
OUR "SERIOUS" RELATIONSHIP. SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I RUN?
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Copyright 7/23/15 S.L. Melendez
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