GOD PUTS PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE FOR VARIOUS REASONS

 I have had the blessed opportunity to meet people from all walks of life. There is a lot of people who will probably disagree with me when they read through my this post. For those who really know me they will know that I love Shakespeare. I really love plays and musicals. My top five musicals I love in this order are as followed: Cabaret, Chicago, Burlesque, Rocky Horror Picture Show and Grease. With plays I love Romeo & Juliet, A Midsummers Dream, Hamlet and The Glass Menagerie. My point of bringing these things up relating to performing arts is this: With Shakespeare quoting that life is a stage and we all play a part, at least for me I think he was on to something. As I said in my previous post, I am a spiritualist. I was baptized as Southern Baptist. I take that part of my religious beliefs serious. I can't put my whole belief system into being a Baptist though because of my life experiences. I have seen and heard way too many extraordinary things not to believe in spiritualism. Yes the people who don't believe in ghost, spirits, God and various energies might claim I am crazy or eccentric. I am just a little eccentric because I don't like to think and be trapped inside the "normal box". There is way too many things, people and places in the world to be confined. I am a person who can agree to disagree. I make a rule to always ask "what if" when new tings are presented to me. I really do believe we are here to learn lessons. I sort of believe that when we become spiritually perfect or divine, that is when we probably won't have to reincarnate anymore. I am not pushing my beliefs on anyone at all either. I am throwing my beliefs out in the universe though. The reason is because I have met a lady who claimed I was her daughter and I know for a fact I never met her. This was not a bad thing at all,in fact I thought it was fascinating. She was about 80 years old give or take, maybe younger. Back then I was 21 to 23 years old. My mom and grandma were the only ones that primarily raised me along with my stepdad. I am choosing to think she was not senile because she seemed pretty sure. I conclude maybe she was my mom in a past life, at least before I was born in 1978. I have met some people who I feel I met before or dreamed about. I know that I did not meet them in this life but we clicked like we did meet. Again this is why I believe in reincarnation. I have read many books regarding soul mates, twin flames, kindred spirits, primary soul mates(People who play major roles in our life: Dad, mom, teacher, mentor ect).  I do believe that before we are born, at one time or another, each person we know plays a big or small part in our life was supposed to do so. I feel somehow like maybe two or more people come to the agreement that a lesson was supposed to be taught to or learned by the other(s). I admit at different points in my life I wanted to be a teacher or a professor. I wanted to teach people and try to bring out the best in them. I am a firm believer in serendipity(A fortunate accident).I LOVE the movie Serendipity because it is so interesting.  I think that the individuals who play major roles in our life, were strategically placed. They were placed at precisely the time when you needed them and possibly when they needed you. I think it might be because everyone could be lacking something necessary for their existences. Here are some examples: Maybe a persons parents didn't believe in them, but the grandparents taught the person that the sky was the limit.  Another scenario is If someone grew up with only a mom or dad compensating for both roles of each parent. Mom or dad, that parent probably tried to prepare the child with everything needed to go out in this crazy but amazing world. An ex boyfriend or girlfriend broke someone's heart bad when the person was young. The individual carried that hurt through life for many years. The person later confront that ex only to find the ex really shows no remorse.  The ex really has not changed that much. This individual is still doing the same thing that was happening years ago. In the meantime the person who had a broken heart met two or three great people to alleviate the hurt. Finally the huge thorn is removed. Why was it removed? Two soul mates found each other in the process of hitting it off with one of the three nice people. What happen to the heart breaker? The person is still breaking another person's heart and spirit. The person might have actually decided to settle down too, who knows?

I believe that sometimes people who have had a hard life might have kids because they were meant to. Those very precious kids were brought into people's lives for reasons. They were also getting ready  to fulfill their destiny. Some of those reasons might be to put people on the straight and narrow path. Other reasons were due to karmic cycles from the past. Maybe one or more people killed someone, robbed someone or something and each person has to pay a debt off. This probably has to be done before a person can move forward. Some people might meet because even though they have kids or marry one person, they might be destined to be with someone else later. I have also concluded that everything that happens in our life happens for a reason. It happens to prepare us for what we might be dealing with later down the line. Half of me believes in fate and destiny. The other half of me is not sure about if our fate and destiny is a sealed deal. Do we actually get some choices in how our life turns out. I think we do to a point but its hard to tell. I say this because I think of how innocent people are raped, beaten killed, or they are in Final Destination type of car pile up. I think to myself surely this can't be meant to be for them:( I do believe sometimes people might be killed on accident. These are things that make me say WTH? I do also believe even if there is a time when someone is taken too soon from your life, whether its a break up or a death, those very people could have been a season. Death is hard for me as with most people. I'm primarily referring to relationship breakups. A child or mom who dies shortly after the child was born is sort of what I am talking about. For a child to die so quickly, I think it maybe was born in a body that was not suitable for it to sustain life. Maybe the child was supposed to teach the mom how to love, and was finishing a short amount of work to move on to higher existence. The mom dying might have happened because her work was done in her life. She was meant to meet her sweet baby for just a short time. Its sad if that is the case but the reasons are endless. Again with breakups the people who exit out of your life could be preparing you for the person your meant to be with.
In conclusion these are the reasons I think we meet people or we are placed with people in our life. To learn to love again, grow, teach, inspire, to think, to become open minded, to become tolerant of other peoples faults, to stop hating and being ignorant, at least for me to believe in God more as well as trust his will. To live in the world but be careful not to be so of the world. It can be hard not to though.


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