There are different types of mind games that people play. Friends, family, spouses, significant others, and children test us. People play games out of the house because at home they are probably controlled by one or more people. When some people play mind games with you, it might be because you intimidate them or your everything that they are not. In relationships if someone is not serious about you they will play cat and mouse wanting you to chase them. A person will lie to you about stuff breaking your trust and wonder why your suspicious toward that individual. Some people will want different flavors of the week when it comes to finding a partner and being a commitment phobe toward that person. Some people might not really love you but are only looking for a step mom or dad. Some people are nice to you just to have a place to bathe, eat and sleep. When you don't do what they want the person becomes Hyde to you and shows true colors. A partner might deliberately flirt with others to make their partner jealous. thy don't understand it hurts the other person's feelings. A person might give 110% while his or her significant other gives only 10%. A male or female partner could be a regular mental manipulator always pressing just the right buttons to get what he or she wants out of the relationship. This is especially easy with someone who particularly has low self esteem or a low self image AKA a human doormat. A parent will use someone's kids against the other parent to emotionally hurt them. Especially, if he or she can get away with it. Parents might not be there for their kids but want their kids to drop everything for them. A parent might play one kid's insecurities against a more confident, favored sibling. The parent compares one with the other boisterous one. Giving one sibling everything and not the others is a major mind game that causes resentment. Being a parent who complains about everything a kids does well up until he or she is out of the house and then even into adulthood. Nothing that person did was good enough. Telling a child/grownup that school I a waste of time is another mind game because what is a person's kid suppose to do stop learning and become a vegetable? Picking on physical characteristics of children can last a lifetime affecting self esteem and self image. Mind games that coworkers and bosses place can be as followed: When either person becomes competitive with you. A person can be seen as weak by a boss and usually when he or she is viewed as weak a boss can take the chance to try and tell a person that he or she is not good enough. This usually stems from a bosses biasness. Other games coworkers play are when people nark you out for any and every reason. There are also people who try to sabotage the good work you do. People acting like they like you and five minutes later they send poison darts t you using their eyes. There are people who gossip about people and point out all someone's flaws and imperfections wen thy don't count their own. When a coworker/boss acts like their way of doing something is perfect and your way of doing it is simply awful even though higher management commends you every time they see you. Other games people can play are when your considered an outcast if you don't kiss tail or deal with drama. Thank you so much for visiting my blog and I will be in contact pretty soon. My eBook is at these websites:
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Faith
Acts 11:22-24
Acts 27: 21-25
Copyright 7/31/15 S.L. Melendez
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