BUILDING YOUR CONFIDENCE WILL CAUSE LADIES AND GENTLEMENT TO COME(No pun intended I promise)THEN AGAIN THEY MIGHT EVENTUALLY:)

In my life I have noticed that a lot of men and women love confident people. Men and women alike do not like people who are not self reliant at least for the most part. When people have game and believe in themselves, they exude a sexy confidence that can't be beat. The confidence that they exude is charisma which makes everyone turn around and take a second look. When people do not believe in themselves it shows. Its not a bad thing but life is too short not to be confident in ones self and his or her abilities. A lot of people in the world have pipe dreams, goals and aspirations. They want to do them but for one reason or another they don't. When they get older they regret not closing their eyes and making it happen. I think people should be more sure of themselves, pound their fist on their fears and have attitude of "I owe it to myself to give my goals and dreams my best shot at trying to go after them. Its not a given that you were meant to do that type of job, be with that person or find out maybe your not so good at what you tried. It is a given however that you WILL discover hidden talent, charisma and maybe one or two admirers you had because you started to believe in yourself more. Another fact that I have learned in my life is that when you are confident in yourself, you will draw the other confident people in the crowds. You can seriously establish work leads, friends, clientele and you can help build people up who are not confident in themselves. Your confidence is your inner light to other individuals. I have noticed that there is not enough listeners, compassion and empathy in the world. In conclusion I think confidence goes hand in hand not only with self love but compassion for others. If you love yourself more and your confident in yourself then a person probably will be less likely to hate, despise or see negativity in others. A confidant person will be more likely to see the world as a land of opportunity instead of a cruel wasteland. Its not to say this world is not a hard place to live in because I admit it is. The more emotionally filtered you are, the easier it is t live here in the big, scary but beautiful place called earth. Thank you so much for dropping by my blog. My eBook is still at the usual places and I am still waiting to publish my eBook at booktango.com and myebook.com. My power point presentation is now on my Blog at a post, its on twitter.com, Facebook.com and I put the URL that is on YouTube on Instagram. Please feel free to check it out and if you want to leave feedback or comments please do so. I would love to hear from you. Take care!