DON'T SIT AROUND AND LET OTHERS CALL THE SHOTS IN YOUR LIFE.

Your trying to establish a life for yourself and you notice a lot of people are telling you how to live your life. These people are people that can be selfish and only think of themselves. These people want to come and go and do what they want, but don't want you living your life the way you need to. What do you do? I say reevaluate your priorities, decide who stays and goes in your life and really decide what is best for you. Example: Your working a job that gives you a lot of hours and a decent amount of freedom. Someone in your life tells you not to work it because you and your partner will not be able to spend time with each other. You partner tells you he or she will be living life the way he or she desires. Your partner also plans to enter and exit your life the way he or she feels like. My point of bringing this up is this: Take your power back and live your life the way its best for you. If this person does not support the decisions you make to benefit your life, then reevaluate if you want that individual in your life. If you and another person decide to get into a relationship and certain things will take place once your together but doesn't its time to declare a time out. You will probably want to think about if that person is meant to stay in your life if he or she is breaking their word already. If you don't have a lot of friends but your very adventurous, you should be bold and go check out your town by yourself. Make up a mini bucket list of things you always wanted to do and do them. You will thank yourself once you do. When you are in a relationship and your partner wants to do something he or she likes, and you want to do your own thing, by all means don't be afraid to do so. This is the same for people in college pursuing a major they are not crazy about. Make sure the major you are going after is something you want to do and not what your family pressures you to do. In the long run you are the one stuck with living out THEIR decisions for your life and your unhappiness. My eBook is still $2.99 at:


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My next post is called: CARS OR A PERSON'S SOCIOECONOMIC STATUS SHOULD NOT DEFINE A PERSONS VALUE


*****ADDITIONAL INSPIRATION***
Never compromise with those who water down the word of God to human experience. Oswald Chambers


**The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul; The testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple; The statutes of the Lord are right, rejoicing the heart; The commandment of The Lord is pure, enlightening the eyes.  PSALM 19:7-8


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