DON'T LET OTHERS STEAL YOUR JOY!

So I haven't been on for a couple days. Its not that I didn't want to, I think I sort of had mild writers block. First and foremost, I absolutely hate when people try to steal peoples joy for any reason. Its wrong on so many levels and what gives people the right to be able to do so?  I'm a firm believer in living and let people live. There are so many ways that people will try to steal your joy. Personally I love to sing. I have had some people tell me that I have a beautiful voice and then I have had people to say "You can't sing....stop trying to be a want to be!". Guess what? I still sing because I love it Plus I'm learning to play keyboard and I absolutely love doing so. I love music in general. To me it tells many stories if you really listen to it! At the time when I was told I could not sing, I made sure I raised my voice to purposely sound like crap and to see that person grimace lol. If I had my way everyone in the world would not have any problems to worry about. They would not have struggles, fears, suffer pain or disease. I can dream can't I? I am very much a realist but I have also been called a dreamer and I wear that title proud. Yes John Lennon's song Imagine is one of my very favorite songs. He had the right idea when he sang that song and he had such a beautiful voice.  There will be a multitude of people who will try to steal your joy and happiness. I promise you this and sometimes they might not even have a reason to do it.  They will be doing it just because they can. People tend to steal joy from individuals they view as weak.  These types of people try to make you unhappy because they are unhappy about things or people in their life. When some people see that you have your life together, they will try to destroy what makes you happy. They will take their hate out on your material things, your significant other(trying to steal him or her away from you) or damage your car.  There are people who might try to get you hooked on drugs or  begin drinking to drag you down. Your enemies will always try to steal your joy. This is because they don't like seeing you happy when they are miserable. If you are heavy and trying to exercise and job, people sometimes make fun of you. This is sometimes when they see you helping yourself. For some evil reason they will laugh at people which to me is very ignorant.   I have had people make fun of me when I was out in Boise. That is why I don't go to a gym and  I exercise at home. I want to be somewhere where I don't have to be judged, pointed at or stared and laughed out. I'm sorry but stuff like that its very wrong to make people feel bad about themselves. Trust me, most people know what is wrong with them selves without having to constantly remind them of it. Some people have built in filters but some people can be fragile. It doesn't help that various forms of media are always point out what is wrong with both males and females. My heart goes out to men and women who think they are ugly, when they are in fact drop dead gorgeous! I think most people are beautiful but its their heart and spirit I'm primarily attracted to. Anyways to me its wrong for people to make fun of people trying to lose weight and they are laughed at and ridiculed. Its downright sad and the rudest thing you can do to someone. I see it like this, if someone decides they want to improve them self by becoming proactive then right on! When I see them doing something about their weight I high five them. I tell them I'm proud of them and keep up the good work. You can see that you brightened up their day just a little bit. You planted a seed of motivation and maybe they will get up the next morning and try to lose weight again the next day and day after that. They will ask themselves if he or she can try for another day. If the individual does decide to attempt exercise another day, its not only done for himself but probably for others. This group most likely consist of a significant other, a parent, a child, a loved one in general. I hate when people are made fun of or ridiculed. I love the saying "Don't blow someone's candle out to make yours brighter". Its true and it has so much meaning with human dynamic. If you are really tall, thin and pretty, and other women are snarky toward you possibly because they are jealous, pay no mind to it. Enjoy being who you are because you were born in the body you were born in for a reason.  I admit I have seen tall beautiful ladies with long legs. I'm 5'1 and I could only imagine what its like to be tall. I have been 5'1 since I was in 8th or 9th grade. I'm 37 now. I feel as young as 25 but I'm at that maturity level. Same goes for the short ladies. Your just as beautiful and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise!  Whether your a taller or shorter man, be happy with yourself. Same as if you are lean or on the heavier side, we are all beautiful in God's eyes. Another thing I wanted to cover in this blog is open to try new different things. If you are a guy who enjoys doing artistic things like ballet, dancing, art, drawing, crocheting, cooking, cosmetology or interior design, by all means do it and ENJOY it! Don't let people try to steal your joy or say mean, biased, slurring things about it while ridiculing you. I think more guys should try feminine or artistic things. I do not see anything wrong with trying to learn to fix a car, flat tire, putting things together and repairing things. I have taught myself a number of things that are considered to be more masculine than feminine. Here is a list of what I am talking about: Changing a spark plug in a push lawn mower, working on the inside of my car hood(minor things like checking oil, refilling window wash fluid, refilling my antifreeze, changing the battery in my car, charging my car battery with my car charger, checking air in my tires, changing a tire, spraying my cars serpentine belt. Aside from doing minor things with a car,(I had a 95 Chevy Camero that was red with black trim. Caused me so many problems I called it Demona because I think she had evil gremlins living inside her) I put together a platform bedframe, wooden bookcase, a small rolling grill(okay the handle was put on backwards but it still rolled:)) and two different elliptical riders. My point is if you want to learn to do something bad enough,  man or a woman don't let anyone tell you that you can't. If you enjoy doing something, don't let someone tell you your not allowed to do it. If people make fun of you, ask yourself if they are really your true friends. If family is making fun of you trying to steal your joy,  then you have two choices. You can stay around and listen to them or you can walk around them and continue doing things to make yourself happy. Another way people will try to steal your joy/happiness is by  doing something to your car. Like clockwork if you buy a car, someone will eventually try to vandalize or scratch it. Its not so much that they are jealous of the car but because you are who you are. They take their dislike for you out on your car. These folks can't get away with assault but when they sneak and attack your car at night because they are cowards, what does it say about their low life character? If your car is especially extravagant, kill joys will take their envy out on your car just because they don't have the same thing. It is sad that there is so much hate in the world. If you find the person who did it,(Damage to a car) press charges and take them to court. Its not right to do that to people. Someone will always be there to try to steal from you whether its your bf/gf/ or material things. Some people will do it just to see if they can get away with it. I don't understand why there must has to be so much hurt go on in the world? My family had a little dog that was part terrier and what looked like part Chihuahua that someone actually stole. The important thing is  under no circumstances let anyone steal your joy and happiness from you. Continue holding your head up and moving on. I have found in my lifetime, when people don't know that they hurt you, they don't know what to do or how to react. Depending on the situation that you and another person are in, having your joy stolen from you could lead to long time ill feelings and grudges. Both of these could result in an angry exchange of words. I admit there was times in my life when I was extremely pissed off a number of people. I did not think I would ever get over my grudge, or that I would ever be able to forgive these individuals. I could not bring myself to try to make amends with them. Speaking of which.. If you would like to hear more tips on trying to make amends with people and what time is the right time to  walk away from those who refuse to forgive you, go to: 

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COPYRIGHT 7/17/15 S.L. MELENDEZ

WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO WORK? STAY AWAY FROM EX'S, HOMEWRECKERS AND GAME KILLERS

So you and the love of your life finally get married and everything is fine for a year or two. The bliss starts dwindling, though you still love your partner more than anything but now what? Your mind is racing off and on and you ask yourself what can you do to keep the fire going?


Knock knock) "Who is it" You or your spouse ask. "Its me, your ex, home-wrecker, or game killer(wife or husband's up-stager). You or your partner replies: "My spouse isn't here right now. I can't really hang right now because I'm busy". (Ex, home-wrecker, game killer)-"But...but...but...what, your love has you under lock and key or can you breath with that tight leash around your neck?" "You should not have to give up your female or male friends if your marriage is as stable as both of you claim". "Let's go out to the movies or talk sexy and flirt behind your partners back". "Make sure you spray the house so your spouse does not smell perfume or cologne". "Also erase yesterdays text messages in case your spouse checks your phone". "I have known you for six years before your partner so its okay if we sneak around without you spouse's knowledge". "By the way, let me remind you I'm a good guy/girl of Christian values. (No offense to any religious people because I'm a God fearing Baptist and Spiritualist)(I'm only making a point I promise!). "It does not hurt to cyber flirt behind your spouses back". "If we tell your spouse it will hurt his or feelings".  "Oh! By the way you should come visit me in my state but don't bring your wife /hubby. It won't get out of hand".
 Next thing you know the hubby or wife meet up with the ex or the home-wrecker  and OOOPS they both trip and fall on each others "HELLLLLO!!!"  I know some folks that were in this type of situation and it turns me into a seething volcano. Its not right or fair to do people like that at all. Ex's are ex's for reasons.
Okay they might be a babies mama or daddy. Fine! But you guys went your separate way for a reason and those people had their chance to be with you. You have to remind yourself that you been there and done that. It didn't work. You also have to remind yourself why you are even thinking to taint the relationship you took an oath to honor in your present marriage. This is especially true if you genuinely have plans to spend the rest of your life with your spouse. To me it seems like some people don't take marriage serious anymore. That kind of milestone is precious to me. Again, like I mentioned in yesterday's blog, Its not that I don't want to get married because I do. I just want to make sure that the commitment is with both of us for the long haul. We are both playing for keeps.
With home wreckers, they can come as male or female. They are usually again babies mamas or dads. They can be a tempting piece of eye candy if you and your spouse cease to quit having sex. I say this because there will always be home wreckers in the shadows. They lurk in the shadows waiting to sabotage most relationships that are happy. Home wreckers usually pop up like the toy in a jack-in-the-box when the bond of your relationship is weak.  The roles of home wreckers usually land in the title of ex wife, ex gf, male or female best friend that your spouse runs to when you argue or fight. This person is a go to person. A tempting game killer can also be someone who is probably successful and sexy as hell.  They are also coworkers, your spouses relatives or someone from school. Sometimes home wreckers strike because they are unhappy. They also tend to strike when your spouse goes off the market. Why? Simply because they feel they can and they don't care who they hurt. They don't really want your spouse, but they don't want you to have him/her either. My personal opinion is this... I think a home wrecker for any reason probably thinks your spouse was going to be single the rest of his or her life. Your spouses role in the home wrecker's mind was that your spouse was going to be single the rest of his or her life to be around and drool after them from afar. The home wreckers get shot back to reality when your spouse, who was not good enough to pursue, found someone who actually makes him/her happy. A home wrecker may start scheming to play games with your spouses head. A home wrecker could want your spouse to think your cheating all the while claiming you two are simply friends. A home wrecker wants to make sure your spouse looks like a raving, jealous lunatic while playing the role of an innocent angel. Ask yourself this... Yes you might have had a crush on this home wrecker and maybe you guys were indeed just friends. If the home wrecker wanted you, don't you think that this person would have made their play for you before you found the love of your life? Not only that, but everything seemed fine until the home wrecker started trying to be a tempter or a temptress. A home wrecker tends to show up in various places that either are related to your job, home or that regard your spouses life. You and your spouse question each other and because the home wrecker knows exactly what he or she is doing, their plans make them laugh. In their head they really think they have things running their way. The home wrecker might even spend time with an innocent bystander for two or three years waiting for you and your spouse to get divorced. When the two of you don't because you worked through your hurdles, then they kind of fade into the woodwork...because they know better!! **Cough*** cough** They better run!!:P


Game killers-This group of people at least from my life experience can be described as the person who love your spouse, but your spouse chose you.( In other words the possible one who got away). They can also the ones who would not mind wiping you off the map because it eliminates their competition. Game killers are the ones who might find you a threat because of envy or jealousy. Their life is miserable so they want to see you miserable too. They can be family such as parents, or grown children who don't like their step parents. They can be someone who was a mere acquaintance on Facebook that thought your spouse would end up with them but your spouse never went anywhere. This type of game killer could be dangerous because they might try to mock everything you or you spouse says and do.
This type of game killer might try to copy your ideas and even find out where you live. They might try to become like fatal attraction. Why some one would go through these extremes is beyond me. True story though. I knew someone who went through this type of predicament. This type of game killer reminds me of a dangerous sociopath. They make their friends think that all these copied ideas are because its part of their persona. Its not part of their persona though because game killers like this are like a camillian, changing colors to blend in to whatever fits the mood and usually just to do so. Another form of game killer is someone who falls under the category of you or your spouses nemesis. Of course the above personality descriptions are a form of nemesis, but these are people who look down on you or your partner.
The reason why you and your partner are looked down on by this group of people is because they think they are better than you in all forms possible. Better looks, more educated, better car...the list goes on and on. These game killers can fall under your wife or husbands sexy but horny friends, family or coworkers. They are always bragging or competing with both of you. These game killers tend to try to portray how perfect they are in comparison to you.  They usually don't have a conscience and do not care whose marriage they destroy. Its nothing for them to seduce someone's spouse. If you compete with them, these game killers are like emotional vampires feeding their ego with your psychic energy being drained. If you fall into their traps, its less energy you have to nurture your marriage. That being said I have more tips on what you can do to not let others steal your joy for any reason.


 My eBook can be found on Smashwords.com  I will also have a separate blog with related topics for this title. My blogs are not duplicate of my eBook chapters. They are supporting ideas, thoughts, and discussions. I also post when my new blogs are done on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. New eBook platforms will be coming soon. Thanks for dropping by and have a great night/evening. I am in Boise and its 3:55am. Talk at you later:)


COPYRIGHT 7/15/15 S.L. MELENDEZ

DATE, GET MARRIED AND RAISE A FAMILY WHEN YOU ARE PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY READY, NOT ON OTHER PEOPLES TIME CLOCK.

Every since I was between the ages of 18 years old on into present day, a lot of people have told me their parents wanted to see them get married and have a family of their own. The parents wanted them to be married possibly with kids, along with completing college. I said fine to each is his own. I know that getting married by a certain age goes way back through history. You were considered an old maid if you were not married by a certain age. You pretty much were considered damaged goods if you did not get married and have a kid by a certain age. Getting married and having a family is fine and dandy. I say good for people who are married with kids. My point is that I refuse to be defined by societies standards of what is acceptable. As I said in my previous blog The Pros and Cons of Dating, My boyfriend and I are working toward getting married. We hope to eventually have a kid. We refuse to do it on anyone's time clock in our personal life. I have never understood why some females rudely tell other females "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride! " That is a small pet peeve of mine. Its mean, its snarky  and judgmental. The bride saying it does not understand maybe just maybe the bridesmaid wants to find someone she is compatible with. The bridesmaid probably wants to find someone she won't divorce three months later after she got married. The bride should also realize that maybe the bridesmaid does not want to run off with the first guy that comes along. The bridesmaid probably does not want to find a dictator husband or wife(whichever the case maybe), because my eBook is dedicated to everyone regardless if they fall into the GLT category. I celebrate marriage equality. A lot of males and females wait until later in life to get married for various reasons. They don't get married until later because I have had some to have told me that they could not picture themselves with one person the rest of their lives. These individuals changed their mind about marriage when they actually decided to get married the time they did. I admit I had chances to get married before Dave but didn't. My reasons were because one, I was scared my marriage would somehow crumble and two, I felt I had nothing in common with guys of my past. I just felt it was not right. I did not have the frame of mind to want to. I wanted someone who was close to my match: Dave and I have a lot in common but compliment each other as well. I love that. I have had people to laugh at me because I don't have kids. I'm not going to melt or crumble because I want to have a stable foundation for my kids to grow up in. I want to give my children everything my parents were not able to give me. I want to teach them all the awesome, open minded life lessons they taught me. I want my kids and husband to be with me forever and we actually love and lean on each other. I don't want to be just another divorce statistic. My point I'm trying to make is that if your not married with kids, but you plan to get married and start a family, DO NOT succumb to the pressure of rushing into it. Do not feel like something is wrong with you because you wait until later to get married and raise children. Take those steps when you are good and ready.  Do not do so because someone is telling you its not normal to be a certain age and not have a family. This is my opinion and of course you can do what you want but peer pressure irks me a lot and probably does most people as well.  I hate when people feel like they have to do something because everyone else is doing it. Know that If your not married you are still good enough!! Strive to live your life to make yourself happy. Life is too short not to.  Of course your husband or wife's feelings matter too though. For more of my tips on getting married and raising a family on your own time frame,


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Stay tuned... my next blog is: ONCE YOUR MARRIED LEAVE ALL THE EXES, HOMEWRECKERS AND GAME KILLERS ALONE IF POSSIBLE!


COPYRIGHT 7/14/15 S.L. MELENDEZ

THE PROS AND CONS OF DATING

There are a number of reasons why I wrote about dating. If your single and casually dating, it can be a long, complicated process. You are trying to get to know people while having a million questions going through your head. The questions running through your mind are probably regarding if a certain person is right for you. Other questions pertain to how you will fit that person in your life with everything and everyone else. I admit I used to become apprehensive introducing my partner to my friends and family. I was always scared that there might always be one person or a group that did not like my partner. I am sure most people might go through that same apprehension as well. It can be a very scary process. When I was single and dating before I met my boyfriend of five years, I was very emotionally guarded. I went on a number of dates. I quite frankly felt like I did not have anything in common with most of the guys. The chemistry was not there and I felt like I could not relate to them.  They seemed nice enough but I actually had people measure me up like I was not good enough. I know I am and I know my worth and value. My boyfriend and I are working our way toward the big milestone of getting married. I wanted to include the topic of dating along with the pros and cons just because I found it hard to do when I was single. Dating can be frustrating. It can be frustrating to the point where it makes people want to give up looking for someone all together. I was at that  very point right before I met my boyfriend. When people become frustrated with dating, its because they feel they will never find someone they are compatible with. People are probably looking for their one true love because I know I was. Some people date or settle with anyone just because they might be afraid of being alone. I consider being with someone so you don't be alone a con when it comes to dating. Again it goes back to recognizing your value and really figuring out what you want in a potential partner. If you don't know your value, you could set yourself up for mental abuse, manipulation, and being a doormat to people your involved with. When you begin dating, you have to have a backbone or at least attempt to have one. Setting standards and boundaries when dating are also a must. If you do not have standards and set boundaries it will eventually lead to unhappiness. If you are dating a number of people, and time after time it does not work out for a number of reasons don't give up. There is nothing wrong with you. Some people figure they are weird or strange and blame themselves for all of their failures. In reality it could be that you don't have chemistry with people. It might have to do with standards being too high. I have met people who say they wanted a husband but when they were introduced to a perfectly good suitor, the suitor was quickly shot down because of vanity reasons. I realize yes to a degree you have to find someone physically attractive, but looks are not 100% though. With me I measured people by their mind and heart first, then looks was close to last. I love intelligent people with a kind, compassionate heart. Lets just say the person who shot the suitor down did not even try to get to know the person at least to become friends with him. I'm sorry I just think its wrong! That brings me to the next point I wanted to make. When you are dating, you should not be quick to judge someone without getting to know them first. Even if it does not work, you always have a friend. On the other hand, when people date, they should not sit by the phone. They should live their life. Dating though is definitely important in getting to know someone you find interesting or intriguing. This is especially true if you are growing to love someone. For more of my dating tips and ideas, my book is full of my insight regarding dating. I am getting my Masters degree as a relationship and grief counselor. These are two fields I feel like I am destined to go into for many reasons. I hate when people die and they are hurting because of it. I also do not like to see people split up for petty reasons when the relationship can be fixed.(I support relationships that are full of lasting potential). If the relationships are toxic I say run for the hills! My book will be coming to Barnes & Noble soon. I will keep everyone posted on Facebook and Twitter.


COPYRIGHT 7/12/15 S.L. MELENDEZ

Self Esteem

I decided to write about self esteem in my eBook for a variety of reasons. Like people who have been or are being bullied now,  I have also met many people with self esteem issues both positive and negative. It does not help to live in a world where we are constantly being judged on how we look or how well we can perform with our mind and body. We are almost expected to be super human. I have met people who were working in fields that their parents approved of but they themselves did not like. The people I met that disliked their jobs were pressured to perform in that job at optimum performance and excellence. These unhappy people felt inadequate most of their life because of unwanted pressure being put on them. The same people were in their situation, because some of the professors in school told them the field they wanted to originally go to school for was too hard. The professors were basically calling them dumb and telling them they were not smart enough to go into their chosen field. I think this is uncalled for and why so many people probably hate their job. I have also met people who were told there was no money in the field they originally wanted to go to school in. Each persons self esteem was lowered because of being told these things and being made to feel as if they settled for  less. I worked with people who were very confidant with high self esteem. Their problem was they worked with mean, scrupulous, bias people that caused their self esteem to become lower. The people with high self esteem and very self assured were mentally picked apart for every reason possible. The bosses attitude seemed to be one of an ongoing bias toward the confidant people. Eventually the confidant people's self esteem took a nose dive. In 2005, I was going to write a children's book but because I was laughed at, I doubted myself at the time. Needless to say that was then and this is now. Eventually I probably will write one. Within the next five years I will be writing eBooks of various genres. I even have the genres picked out:) No this is not my only job. I am currently a student at Boise State University. I am majoring in Social work and Minoring in Psychology. I admit  I love Communications though so there is a chance that I could change my major. I decided to write my eBook because I am determine to reach out to people with my words. My messages in my eBook sincerely come straight from my heart. I also know that if I didn't take a chance and publish my eBook, I would regret not taking a chance in life and doing it. I had to do it because it was a strong yearning  I have had for a long time. The Self Esteem portion of my eBook is dedicate to anyone who has ever been told they were or are not good enough for any reason. Other people do not get to make that call about you. Never forget that! Different forms of media make a lot of people feel like they are unattractive or insignificant for a number of reasons. I have met people who were very attractive, with killer senses of humor and talent. Guess what? They thought they were ugly, dorky or lame when they had so many things going for them. As you can tell, I'm the person who meets people and automatically sees the beauty and good in everyone. Most of the time I turn a blind eye to people's faults because I prefer to have a humble, serene attitude. I feel like its not for us to judge and to each is his own. My point is, you are awesome and you are good enough! I decided to write about a lot of topics you might not hear about in other books. I see my eBook written in a way that is very unorthodox but I promise that's not a bad thing. I have learned a long time ago its cool to be different AND just to let you know, my eBook is one that takes you on a lot of twist and turns. I like to keep my audience guessing... my Preciouses:) COPYRIGHT 7/11/15 S.L.MELENDEZ

I HATE WHEN PEOPLE ARE BULLIED/ REASONS WHY I DEDICATED SECTIONS OF MY BOOK ABOUT THE SUBJECT

Hello!  I wrote some sections in my eBook about bullying. I am the type of person that I love talking to anyone and everyone. In middle school and high school I was bullied. I can imagine a huge number of people are. Bullying is one of my pet peeves. I love most people I come in contact with and I believe everyone should be treated equally. I have traveled to/through 32 states out of 50 states. I have had the opportunity to travel most of my life and I think that is probably why I love it so much. I have met so may people and they have told me stories about how they were bullied or where they were presently being bullied at the time we spoke. I see bullying as a terrible injustice that no person should have to endure. It breaks my heart and saddens me when people mistreat others. I was called fat, ugly, skank(though I was not). I was made fun of because I didn't have money. I had acne and  was teased even about how I wore my makeup. Okay so when I started it I looked like a cross between a tomato with  eyebrows and Mrs. Pumpkin head because I could not find a foundation that matched my skin. Now I only wear tinted moisturizer but its beside the point. I love different shades of lipstick and I wear my cloths, makeup and hair to satisfy myself and myself only. Once I graduated high school  vowed not to ever follow trends again. I liked being my own person. I had my makeup and clothing bloopers but guess what? Because I went through all of that back then, It made m take a vow not to ever make fun of anyone about anything. My parents and grandparents taught me and my siblings not to look down on anyone anyways but in general when I meet someone in my mind I always see them as my equal. Its one thing if your with your friends and playfully teasing them but someone making someone feel bad about themselves for any reason just because a person can is wrong and cruel! If I see a person being bullied I am quick to tell the person bullying someone to leave that person alone. Bullying bothers me so much that I decided to write a portion of this book about it and my way of handling it in my life experience. In my eBook I wanted drones of people to know that they do not have to take crap from people and that they are so much more better than that. Their lives are precious and time on this earth is precious. I hear a lot about people feeling so bad about themselves that they kill themselves! What if they were meant to do something on this earth and they didn't because of bullying? For people who read my book I tried to make my words so vivid and strong that they could almost feel my arms come out of the computer and give them a tight hug because I want them to feel like they mean something if not to anyone else to me!! I mean that to everyone who reads this blog.. that is how much agape love I have for people. This world is hard enough to live in without being cruel to one another. I don't know you but love you and humanity enough that I wanted to reach out to my audience and let you know you are important, and enough! I also wanted to share my thoughts of the different things I covered in my book. Each blog I post will be about a different subject in my book but it might be something totally different that's not related to my eBook at all. Until we meet again which will be very soon have a good night or morning.
COPYRIGHT 7/9/15 S. L. MELENDEZ

Amazon & Smashwords . .

My book is now available on both Amazon.com & Smashwords.com.
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